When our spouse is frustrating, challenging, and confusing we can choose to look past the exterior and see what’s true about them.
“X-ray vision is the ability to view a normally-obstructed object with extreme clarity.” This is what Focus on the Family’s Dr. Greg Smalley calls us to use with our spouses. When we use a negative lens, everything our spouse does can drive us to contempt, which is the death knell for any marriage. Greg points to the Old…
As we take another person under our wing and mentor them along their journey, they will learn how to live an honorable life that is pleasing to Christ.