Let’s face it parents — we pray dreams over our children. It’s the nurturing part in us that wants a better life for them over what we have.  Praying prophetically brings a hope and future into their lives in ways that invites God to develop their gifts and talents. What we actually provide is the faith that God will gift them with something great, and that God will use them for His greater purpose. As parents, we believe in the potential that only we can see in them and that they don’t see in themselves.

It’s exciting to pray this over our children. We often realize many things about who God is in those moments too. A prophetic word is just that a word for the future, and what an awesome opportunity to speak hope into our children’s futures.

The great plans of God don’t always result in a large bank account or a prominent position, although God can do anything in our lives with willing people that submit to Him. We need to ask God for a vision for our children. With our physical lives we see them as they are, but with our spiritual eyes we can see them as God sees them. It’s only when we close our eyes in prayer that God will open our spiritual eyes to who we are in Christ with an identity based on Him.

We need to help children know and find their identity in Christ alone.  Our roles as parents are to help them find their sweet spot where their God-given gifts and passions overlap.  There is something powerful about naming our children in prayer and asking God to impart wisdom in our children and grow them up in wisdom and stature and favor with God and man.

Dear Lord, there are those days when our children exasperate us and anger us and our minds just want to correct them.  We need your help in doing this in a loving way.  We also need help in growing them and teaching them wisdom that can only be found in your Word.  We tend to remember what we need to forget and forget what we need to remember.  Lord, help us pray your potential gifts and plans into their lives and show us how to grow those – and prosper them in ways that are in love and excellence. It’s your character that we want to see in our lives, and through the lives of our children. May we as families reflect your love and character in all things.  Help us to see their hope and their future with You, Lord. Amen.

Takeaway verses:

Jeremiah 29:11 “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.”

Proverbs 16:9  “The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps.”

Proverbs 16:3  “Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established.”

Matthew 6:33  “But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”

2 Timothy 2:15  “Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who has no need to be ashamed, rightly handling the word of truth.”

One Response to "Praying over your children"

  • Marcy says:

    I enjoyed reading this and the prayer that went along with this. “We tend to remember what we need to forget and forget what we need to remember”. That was something that I read and reread about ten times because I am a mother of a sweet, 3 year old girl that I pray for everyday. I know God has more to offer my daughter that’s obvious .I am just keeping faith that I’m raising her right in his eyes and that I don’t forget what I need to remember 🙂

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